meetups
ok. in my attempt to be more social and make friends, i registered on this website called meetup.com. you join groups in the area of people who have similar interests and the organizer sets up get-togethers.
so i've joined two so far - one that's a women's social group for 25-35 year olds, and another that's a mind, body, spirit group that gets together and does yoga and whatnot.
they have just about every type of bizarre interest group available - people who are into dungeons and dragons, hula hooping, pick up soccer, there's a walking group that gets together for walks and a restaurant group that goes out and tries new restaurants (which i was tempted to join until i noticed that everyone in the group was, like, my parent's age).
so the women's social group is meeting on sunday at beans & barley on the eastside for coffee and brunch. i rsvp'd yes.
i don't know why i get myself into these things...sounds like a great idea at first, but i'm afraid it's going to be really uncomfortable and lame when i get there. i'm fairly certain the conversation will die at some point and it'll become awkward. i hate awkward. i'm really making an effort to put myself out there because i'm tired of not having any (or really just 1) good girlfriend(s), but this is really exhausting.
on a side note - i'm having dinner with liz tonight. this'll be the second time we've gotten together. she's cool and we get along well. she's the girlfriend of a guy that matt is in a band with in case you missed her introduction into the blog a few weeks back.
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:) thanks! nto having any close friends really does bother me at times and so i'm making an effort to meet new ones, but sometimes it's just so mentally exhausting...it's like a dozen first dates.
and i think the same way as you - i'm the only person who can change this situation and it'll never get better if i don't suck it up and deal with being uncomfortable and awkward here and there. i figure once i get to know them, it'll stop being awkward...it's just a matter of getting to that point.
I came home, hopped on vox (remembering you went to a friend website), now that I'm armed with the URL I'm going to go out and find me some friends!!
Thank you!
Ps. I'm kind of scared.
:) me too - i have yet to actually get to one of these things - they always seem to happen on the few days that i have plans...i'll be sure to post about a meetup when i get to one!
good luck!