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That sounds like me. Just be proud of yourself that you took the initiative and the first step towards what you want in life. I feel like I'm in the same position. At times I'd feel ambitious (for having social anxiety) and wanting to get out there and meet people, but when the time comes, I hesitate again. Don't worry though, I'm sure it'll go fine :) Just remember that nothing can change (for the better) if you don't let them. :)

:) thanks! nto having any close friends really does bother me at times and so i'm making an effort to meet new ones, but sometimes it's just so mentally exhausting...it's like a dozen first dates.

and i think the same way as you - i'm the only person who can change this situation and it'll never get better if i don't suck it up and deal with being uncomfortable and awkward here and there. i figure once i get to know them, it'll stop being awkward...it's just a matter of getting to that point.

I just checked out meetup for groups in my city...so I joined a few groups, and we'll see if I ever get up the nerve to attend any. lol

BTW, I would totally love to stop my life now, pack a bag and travel the world. There's so many things I'd like to do, it kind of seems overwhelming. Thanks for the inspiration :)

let me know if you end up meeting with any groups and how it went!
i never knew such a thing existed for people to find friends. hmmm. interesting! i'm terrified to even look to see if there is something like that out here... i think there would be maybe two. "hen-pecking" and "gossip central".. hahahaha!
ahhh... sorry. ;)
goodluck to ya! i'll be interested to hear how it all turns out. it does sound like fun, or at least, the idea of it does.

i ended up changing my rsvp to no...i chickened out. i'm not giving up on it though, i just wasn't up to meeting 7 total strangers today...has a stressful week and a busy holiday weekend. i just wanted to relax today. i will definitely make it to the next one though and will let you know how it goes.
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I got out of work earlier than planned today. My boyfriend is going out with some friends from work and as much as I wish he'd invite me I'm glad he didn't. I need to find my own social network.
I came home, hopped on vox (remembering you went to a friend website), now that I'm armed with the URL I'm going to go out and find me some friends!!

Thank you!

Ps. I'm kind of scared.

:) me too - i have yet to actually get to one of these things - they always seem to happen on the few days that i have plans...i'll be sure to post about a meetup when i get to one!

good luck!

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